Monday, August 3, 2009

Relationship Blues

I'm having a relationship blue, and don't know what to do. Been having a long distance relationship for a year plus now and it's really hard.

The distance it's really killing me. Feel like giving up sometimes but yet need to preserver on, after all it's been a year plus now. I couldn't expect him to come and see me whenever I needed him because of his job commitment and the distance and neither could I.

Even though, we have been communicating through web cam, it's a big difference talking and seeing each other face to face. But then again I can't be so selfish, can't I?

When in a relationship, I can't think only on my needs but I need to understand and fufill his needs too. Love is not selfish, right?

It will be a long journey for us in this relationship. There are so many things that we need to build our lives together on.

Right now, I've got to accept and learn how to handle this relationship well thinking above my needs.

Do learn how to love and appreciate the people near you, that's what I've learned.

PS. Been feeling down since yesterday and a big thanks for listening to my thoughts. Please leave some good advice and comments just to cheer me up!

6 comments:

eugene said...

hello dear,you know something as far as love is concerned, there is no wrong or right. if you think you can hold on to it by all means, but if you think you want out, by all means too...

hope you know what i am saying,,,,,,,

sexy jessie said...
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sexyjessie said...

Well, I'm staying strong and hanging on!

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The Mrs Blogs said...

Well LDRs are never easy so kudos to you for keeping it going.

sexyjessie said...

Cas, appreciate your comment. Thanks!