Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Honey... I'm late.

"Honey, I'm late. I think I'm pregnant".

This is the statement that every boyfriend is afraid of or is a joy to hear.

This is a typical problem that unmarried couples will have to face if they are not being too careful. Many unmarried couples have premarital sex which considered to be normal nowadays. I do not condone nor I'm against premarital sex, but do always have sex with responsibility.

I'm sure that these couples won't ever will want to have babies if they are not ready, what more if not be married yet? Have a shotgun wedding?

Abort the baby? That's cruel and inhuman!

The baby was not in the picture in the first place but the couples will have to include him in. Plans made gone awry and it has to come with responsibility.

Most couples eventually married because of responsibility and the consequences. But, do they married for love too?

Ps. For those who have or are experiencing this, what will you do?
Do you married for love or responsibility? Or both? Are you regrettable of what had been done?

Friday, September 25, 2009

Friends...You Can Never Live (2)

It's been three weeks since I last saw her, one of my closet friend. We had a misunderstanding (posted in Friends...You can never live (1)) and there were no phone calls made since then, maybe due to our pride and stubbornness. We are just waiting to call each other, aren't we?

I have been her friend for many years now and been with her through thick and thin.

I felt bad for not contacting her. Partly is also because I need to spent Saturdays with my boyfriend.

If I do call her, I;m afraid that she will expects too much of a friend from me.

Ps. Shall I call her or live it as it is?

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Random Thoughts

I got ready an hour ago. Waiting for my boyfriend to pick me up for a date, he told me he will be here an hour and yet he did not turn up yet.

I called him and he told he me that he will be here another hour late because he was helping his friend's delivering some Hari Raya stuffs. Sometimes, why he is so kay-poh?

Right now, I'm still waiting....

Got to learn how to be p-a-t-i-e-n-t.

I will be out before midnight and will be back in the wee hours of morning, painting the town red... Lol. The perils of young and being in love.

Ps. I just loved being in this feeling. To all my Malaysian die hard bloggers, enjoy the long weekend ahead, go and paint the town red!

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Ten Things God Won't Ask...

I would like to share some quotes which forwarded by a friend of mine; they are true enough.

1. God won't ask how what kind of car you drove, He'll ask how many people you drove who didn't have transportation;

2. God won't ask the footage of your house, He'll ask how many people you welcomed into your house;

3. God won't ask about the clothes you had in your closet, He'll ask how many you helped to clothe;

4. God won't ask what your highest salary was, He'll ask if you compromised your character to obtain;

5. God won't ask what your job title was, He'll ask if you performed your job to the best of your ability;

6. God won't ask how many friends you had, He'll ask how many people to whom you were a friend;

7. God won't ask what neighbourhood you lived, He'll ask how you treated your neighbours;

8. God won't ask the color of your skin, He'll ask about the content of your character;

9. God won't ask why it took so long to seek salvation, His arms are always open waiting for you;

10. God won't have to ask how many people you shared, He already knows your decision.

Ps. I could not agreed more with the above quotes, felt bad as I don't practise most of it.... Being selfish, just being human...

Are you being human in all this?

Friday, September 11, 2009

If Today Was Your Last Day???

If today was your last day and tommorow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last
Leave old pictures in the past?
Donate every dime you had,if today was your last day?
What if, what if, today was your last day?

By Nickelback

If today was my last day, all I asked is forgiveness from God himself and from those who had done me wrong.

I will then gather all my families and friends telling them I Love Them.

I will go to my favourite spot, watching beautiful sunset and leave this place in my arms of my beloved.

What if today was your last day to live? You have only 12 hours more to live!

a)What will you do as the song said?

b)Call up all your friends and ask for forgiveness to those who had done wrong?

c)Write up a will and decided where all your properties and monies goes to?

d)Gather all your love ones and families?

e)Eat your favourite food and watch your favourite movie?

f)Telling all your dreams and goals that you would never be able to achieve?

Sunday, September 6, 2009

Friends... You can never live...(1)

Friends; You can never live with or without them. I don't have many close and good friends, but there are 2 friends that I can't live without.

Last week, one of this friend of mine, she pisses me off. I don't know whether she did it deliberately. We had an agreement of splitting up two bottles of Omega 3 which were brought from a pharmacy a month ago.

She then tells me that she wanted to buy from me the remainding bottle of Omega 3 which I haven't open it. I agreed because I'm still on the old bottle, not realising that mine is finishing fast.

I then called her up and told her that I could not sell my bottle to her. She agrees, but the next day she calls up and said that I was a liar. That I promised her to sell the my bottle to her. I told her that I ran out of stock and I couldn't sell it to her. She was angry with me and she ended the conversation.

I have been friends with her for the past 10 years. I've been through her ups and downs, always by her side. Our friendship definitely comes a long way.

I know that my issue with her seems little; but I feels that she's taking advantage of me this time.

There are times when she calls and expects me to be there immediately.

Without fail, 2 weeks once, I will pay her a visit. I will drive her for her grocery shopping and then dinner. (She's single and lived alone).

I think as her friend, I can do as much for her. It's hard sometimes to live to her expectation.

Ps. I'm just venting out my frustrations. I've nothing against her, but do you think she's too much?

Saturday, September 5, 2009

I'm In Love Again...

The daily text messages, daily phone calls, hands held, hugs and kisses came rushing by. The feelings of being in love. Feeling of being wanted, care and love by someone. Yeap, I'm in love again.

I've met my new boyfriend 3 weeks in a dating website. And thank God that he's from Penang and not somewhere far, far away. So far, we been out for 3 dates and everytime we went out, it's a great time spent together.

At this point, I've nothing much to say, as we are still new in this relationship.

Ps. I'm glad that I've put my previous relationship away. Looking forward in my new found love.

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

My Mom's B'day Wish

Today is my mom's birthday. She's celebrating her 62 birthday. I called up her and wished her "Happy Birthday".

During her 62 years, she has brought 4 beautiful children with her love and tender care. And till today, her children has grown successfully doing well in life.

Being the eldest, I was always be picked by my mom when I was younger. I was always get the blamed and beaten up by her whenever there are quarrels between us siblings.

I struggled in my high school; I was not a bright student. I was trying my very best to please her back in those days.

She favoured my 2 brothers as they always bring many AAs in the exams. Which leads to siblings jealously.

I thought it was not fair at all and she didn't love me at all.

Things changed for a better when I left my hometown and worked in Penang. I stayed alone and for the first time, I missed her. Her cooking, washing, advice, her presence and time spent with her.

From the time, we were apart, we began to accept one another as we are.

Her labour was never in vain. My siblings and I grew up just fine not by becoming someone successful in life but also someone useful.

My birthday wish for my mom is that she will have a fulfilled life surrounding with her family's love.

Ps. Thanks mom for your great love and you are still loving us. Happy birthday mom, I love you.