We are typical Malaysians!

As Malaysia will be celebrating her 52Nd Independence Day on the 31st August, here are some quotes that makes us typical Malaysian that can be proud of.

a) National excuse for being late - Traffic jam

b) National aphrodisiac drinks - Stout, many swears by it. But after a few pints they start swearing by anything. Lol...

c) National fake illness of getting MC (Men) - Food poisoning.

d) National fake illness of getting MC (Women) - Menstruating/Period pain.

e) National excuses given by women for refusing sex - Headache, kids not sleep, got meeting tomorrow, tired, going to watch "Desperate Housewives", etc...

f) National excuse given by men for refusing sex - None. Malaysian men never refuse sex? Really?

g) National language - "mah", "lah", "eh", etc...

i) National cure for headaches - Panadol.

j) National rubbish dump - Anywhere, as long it's not in your house.

k) National roadside attraction - The bra-less tourist. See how heads turn and traffic slows down when Mat Salleh goes bouncing down the streets.

Ps. To all my Malaysian bloggers, Happy 52nd Merdeka Day! May Malaysia continue to grow in better health, wealth and economy for all her future generations.

My 100th Blog

Finally, I won the race of being in the 100th blog. I think blogger.com should award every 100th blog.

Been blogging for a year plus now. I was introduced the blogging world by my godbrother Eugene, http://bold-talk.com. Thanks to him, I have came this far.

Initially, I remembered my first few blogs was kind of hard. I needed to think and write topics in a piece of paper before I transferred the details in my blog entry. So much of being an amateur, lol. After a few entries, it became natural and thoughts and topics just flow easily.

Blogging has became a way of life for me. I don't really blog for money, but it has thought me to become mature and wiser handling life's challengers. Much though. I have a few kaki bloggers which I would like to thank for.

Full Time Mom, Linda, Womanspeak,Genna,Cas and Eugene, thanks for visiting me and following my life stories leaving comments and good advice. You guys are my online guardian angels even though we have not met.

Made to Worship and Abraham, your blogs inspires me whenever I'm down and looking for Godly advice.

I will go on blogging bringing my life happiness, sadness and griefs to live.

Ps. A great thanks and appreciation to my blogger friends for being there in and out.

This virus knows no man

When I woke up this morning, I had the flu again and cough, being me having the allergy most the time. I was reluctant to go to see the doctor and to take an mc.

Because I'm still a newbie in my company and I wouldn't want to be labelled as someone who's always on mc.

I might have the symptoms of A(HINI) and I could have contacted the virus from my friend in Singapore who visited me yesterday. After much self persuasion, I went to see the doctor.

Before my turn was called, there were two patients were down with cough. After coming out from the doctor's room, they were asked to go to the General Hospital's emergency ward for further screens. Which means that they are suspected of the A(HINI) virus!

The doctor took my temperature and I was fever free! Whew, thank God for that! I was afraid that I will be a suspected case.

I've finally let go....

I opened my email after work hoping my boyfriend (now my ex), will reply. I gave him the benefit of the doubt that he will reply telling me the reasons why he shut me out completely yesterday, but alas he did not.

By his unacceptable behaviour yesterday, I think he's asking for a breakup. He's such a coward to ask for a breakup.

Since he gave the silent treatment, I returned him my silent treatment too. Wrote him an email telling him I'm calling it quits.

I have thoughts of leaving this relationship many times. (As posted in Relationship Blue). Well, it did finally came through.

I've felt relief but the missing him is still in my heart. I've got to be strong to put this behind in due time.

Ps. Is there any relationship that is too hard to let go in your life?

What have I done to deserve this?

I was completely shut out today when I called my boyfriend over the web cam. Thinking he couldn't hear me and see me, (he was watching TV that time), I called him a few times.

I then called him on his mobile, he didn't answer my call. Called him again, did not pick up my call and on the third try, he switches off his phone!

Knowing that I was still around, he deliberately moves his web cam away from his view, so that I couldn't see him!

After trying and waiting for him for ten minutes, I gave up and locked off skype.

He completely shut me out and I was fuming mad! I don't know what's wrong with him.

I then wrote him an email demanding an explanation of his doing. I really need to know his reasons for all this.

Until now, back in my mind thinking what have I done to deserve this?

I'm contemplating now whether this long distance relationship is worthwhile.

Ps. Can anyone tells me why is he behaving like this? Is he asking for a breakup?

I'm lazy today...

I'm lazy today to post a specific blog entry, as weekend is approaching in just a few hours. My mind is telling me to rest today.

I'm sure that some of you are eager to look forward toward the weekend. Yeah, 2 full days without work. But to some, like me, tomorrow :( is a working day. Wish that I could wake up like 10am....

My weekend will be spending lots of time in bed, sleepinglah and watching soap drama which I never missed; Grey's Anatomy. Also once a week for sweeping and moping my apartment. I will definitely squeeze in Sat evening for swimming.

On Sunday, I still can't sleep late as I have to go to church service. By the time, I be back home, it is about 2pm, after I had my lunch. Yeah, yeah Christian services are a bit long.

Talked to my boyfriend on web cam for at least 2 hours. After that, more sleep. Night will be approaching and soon enough it's Monday to work.


Have a happy weekend everyone!

Ps. How do you spend your weekend? Is it a fulfilling one? Or just like me lazing around?

Thoughts On My Family

I've got a missed call from my dad during lunch today. I did not take my handphone out. I felt jittery after receiving his call. I returned his call.

You know, the kind of feeling you would have, thinking that you get bad news about your family, especially in the odd hours and at night?

Whew, thank God, my dad accidentally pressed my number.

Absent makes the heart grows fonder as they say.

Most days, my thoughts will be on them and even my two brothers. That everything will be well of them.

The bond between us are not the same anymore as each of us have our own lives to live. Gone are the days, when we all stayed together. Perhaps, the bond will be stronger now?

I haven't talked to my brothers since the last gathering at my parent's house for the chinese new year. As the elder sister, I should take an initiative to call and talk to them. But, I have this feeling, maybe they don't want to be disturbed?

Ps. As you grew up, does your bond with your family grew apart or became more close knit? Am I a bad sister?

When did you discover sex?

I remembered I sat in my high school science lab listening to my teacher explaining about a penis meeting an egg. The penis will shoot thousand of sperms inside the vagina to meet the ovary. After the sexual meeting, the result is a baby waiting to be delivered in nine month's time.

I was gawking and trying to imagine what my teacher had said. I was really lost and there was my sex education, theoretically. There was no explanation about safe sex and using of condoms. (Maybe, during 13 years ago, there were not many unwanted pregnancies).

Being a taboo subject and an embarrassment to ask my parents, I discovered sex by reading Miles and Boons stories. The stories were told subtly which leaves the reader to it's imagination. Those who read Miles and Boons, I'm sure you know, right?

I continued to discover more by reading magazines about the implication and having safe sex. Also sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies.

Kids, nowadays are different from kids 10 years ago. Studies found that kids as young as nine years, especially girls are sexually active. Damn their ragging hormone! Some of them even lost their virginity. Shocking isn't it?

Easy accessibility of pornographic and bad company they mixed with could end up for these kids to have sex not in a rightful manner.

I do not how the sex education is being taught in school today. It is definately not enough! Parents still need to teach their own children what the teachers have missed out.

Ps. Parents, please take a keen interest to teach your own children the proper sex education. Please do not let your children end up like me discovering sex from various sources.

Relationship Blues

I'm having a relationship blue, and don't know what to do. Been having a long distance relationship for a year plus now and it's really hard.

The distance it's really killing me. Feel like giving up sometimes but yet need to preserver on, after all it's been a year plus now. I couldn't expect him to come and see me whenever I needed him because of his job commitment and the distance and neither could I.

Even though, we have been communicating through web cam, it's a big difference talking and seeing each other face to face. But then again I can't be so selfish, can't I?

When in a relationship, I can't think only on my needs but I need to understand and fufill his needs too. Love is not selfish, right?

It will be a long journey for us in this relationship. There are so many things that we need to build our lives together on.

Right now, I've got to accept and learn how to handle this relationship well thinking above my needs.

Do learn how to love and appreciate the people near you, that's what I've learned.

PS. Been feeling down since yesterday and a big thanks for listening to my thoughts. Please leave some good advice and comments just to cheer me up!