My colleague asked me to drop off her at a bus stop as her husband is not picking her up today. She suddenly blurted out that she suspects her husband is having an affair.
I asked her why did she thinks so? She told me that for weeks on certain days, her husband is at an army camp, supposedly. She suspects her husband is at the other woman's house. Her husband is serving in an army camp.
She can't ask her husband's friends about his whereabouts as his friends are known to cover his tracks.
When comes to relationship, women are gifted to have sixth sense. They can sense whether their partner is telling lies.
Mostly women are on the losing ends when they found out their partners are having affair. They are not willing to leave the partners worse if it involves children. Hoping, their partner will change to a better man.
Some women just accept the fact that their husbands is having affair, much to a point that they accept the mistress into the family.
It's not fair that these women are being treated this way. Some just can't or won't get out of their trapped marriages. Most believed that because of the love and relationship they had built with their husbands, they can't forgo the relationship.
I understand why all these women can't or won't leave their marriages. It depends on every situation. It's easier said than done.
If my husband were to have an affair, I'm willing to forgive him for the first time. If he continues, I'm adamant of leaving him.
Ps. Will you leave your partner if you partner have an affair?