Monday, April 19, 2010

What advice would you give?

My colleague is having relationship problem with her husband and many times she's comtempleting leaving her husband.

She's been married for nine years and she bored 2 children. Her husband was having numerous affair and have mounting debts to pay. As a filial wife, she forgave her husband of the affairs and even helped him to pay off his debts. Until today, her husband is still asking her for money!

There is one incident she could hardly believed what her husband had done. Her husband was secretly using her name as a guarantor to secure a bank loan. She was so upset when the bank calls for confirmation.

Today, she suspects her husband is starting yet another new affair. Many times, she has asked divorce from her husband but she's thinking about her children.

And today, she asked me this; "What would you do if you were me? Will you leave your husband?"

Ps. What advice would you give her?

6 comments:

cleffairy said...

I will leave. Why? Such things cannot be considered as marriage anymore.

eugene said...

i will leave as well............ love is not supposed to be in this way,,, a husband should not do anything bad and as disgusting as this to his wife,,,

Sexy Jessie said...

Cleffairy & Eugene: She's going to seek counselling at the religious department next week, being a muslim. She's going to gather informations about the pro and cons of leaving her husband.

Cas said...

Leave before it gets any worse. I dont believe conselling can help either one of them. Once a cheater, always a cheater

chubskulit said...

I will leave the first time around, a guy like him does not deserve a second chance.. PERIOD!

Sh@KiR@ CK said...

Well, as you know, I am a Muslim.
What the husband did IS AGAINST EVERYTHING ISLAMIC.
If she wants to write to me,
roungda@gmail.com
hugs
shakira