Saturday, May 19, 2012

I should have called her.....

He's a total stranger to me, living in the india, I never met him before, just spoken on the phone twice.  Our meeting will be online.

He will tell me about his work, his love life and his future plans.  Lately, he's been telling me about his wife that has always fallen sick and has been hospitalised a few times.  I just offered my compassion on his behalf of his wife and I had to believed him.  I never met or spoken to his wife.  The wife is residing and working in Taiwan.

Until a day, that he asked me to do a simple favour. To call his wife because he can't reach her at that time.  I said that I can't not because I don't have credits to do that.  I was just too be careful of myself for being afraid that my phone will be intercepted by an international syndicate or something worst going to happen to me.  Talking about me of being paranoid, or what?  Or maybe, I did not believed his story.

I managed to chat with the wife after that and asked her about her illness.  True enough, she was sick and has been hospitalised.  And I felt so bad that I did not make the call to her.

As I write, she's now waiting for her CT scan.  I am so anxious to know the result, I wish I can call her.

Ps.  Have you turn down simple request before knowing that it would be regretful later?

  

9 comments:

suituapui said...

Only if I know the people concerned well enough... You're right, we'll never know what kind of people we socialise with online - there is always some risks involved. Thank goodness I've been lucky...almost all of the time.

sexyjessie said...

STP:With your size and your voice, no one will want to mess with u. Ha ha ha!

eugene said...

Just be careful ya,online is dangerous, sometimes it can sound so good but ends up no good,,

just remember that's so much we can do,,,ya

Genskie said...

I think you're just being cautious... if i were in your position i might did the same thing. But yes i did have some handful of experiences that made me regret. Have a wonderful week.

_genskie_

Daddy said...

The web becomes such a big site for scams and scandals that one must always be cautious about. As bro Eugene said, just be careful ....

sexyjessie said...

Eugene:Thanks bro, I will.

sexyjessie said...

Genskie:Yeap, I'm being cautious, there lots of unscrupulous people out there. I am still "caring" for her online.

sexyjessie said...

Daddy:Thanks for the advice. Never reveal your weakness or your private information on the web. But still, there are lots of gulliable ppl who got scammed!

Cas said...

Jessie dont knock yourself up too much over it, I wouldnt have done it too esp since we can't really trust people we dont really know. You're just being cautious which is a good thing!