Tuesday, August 9, 2011

I'm so annoyed.........

I am annoyed with a Christian sister from my church. She is asking about my private life through my sister.

This Christian sister was asking about my boyfriend and I. Yes, she saw us holding hands in church while we were praying. And she starts to investigate who my boyfriend is. My boyfriend is from a different race than I am.

She continues to ask about my boyfriend from my sister of which she can ask from me. I really do not understand why is she doing like that. My sister could have mistakenly tell the wrong information of what she needs to know.

She even sent friend request to my FB account. Of course, I did not accept her request. Why on earth, she sent me request now? After all, she should has added me before I meet my boyfriend.

Clearly, she wants to snoop around for information that will lead to my boyfriend and I. She's so unbelievable!

I felt so annoyed and I text her last night, telling her to stop what she's doing and asking her to get the right information from me only.

Ps. I'm not bad mouthing any Christian here, as I'm a Christ's believer too. It's only her approach and her manners are not Christian like at all!


13 comments:

SHY said...

Some people are like that Jessie, why she can ask to you directly. Anyway non of her business to know about you and your bf, it is your private life and she should not know about it. It was good that you tested her so she can stop what she is doing which is not good.

sexyjessie said...

Shy:Yeap, she is a friend that I would want to avoid. She has no right to know about me and my bf's life.

Anonymous said...

We owe no one our lives,only to God we are to subcribe to ya

eugene said...

this is from your brother Eugene,,,, heed her not ya

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Unknown said...

Why she acts so keh poh chi one...ignore her totally!

sexyjessie said...

Anonymous:Yeap, only God we are answering to.

Eugene:Yes, my brother. I will ignore her.

sexyjessie said...

MDS:Thanks. Hmmmmm, am I the chosen one? I will hope to your blog now.

sexyjessie said...

Angeline:I dont know why she is so kepoh....maybe jealous kut, that's why until noe, she doesnt has a boyfriend.

இ Baŋäŋaz இ said...

Some people are very concern but just dunno how to express themselves or handle the situation well..dont get annoyed they say bad can get more wrinkles woh.. cheer up.

suituapui said...

Busybody. The fact that both of you - you and your boyfriend - go to church is a good sign already. Many do not even bother to get married in church these days...and never bother to go to church at all - alone or together. With people like that in the church, no wonder many are leaving... So sickening!

sexyjessie said...

Bananaz:I know that she's concern, but cant she approach me and ask rather than going behind my back? Now, that I dont like!

sexyjessie said...

STP:Indeed it's not a suprise that many people are hurt and left because of the church hurtful and judgemental remarks.