Sowing their wild oats

When men have their liabilities sowing their wild oats, they are considered studs.   But when it comes to women, they are labeled sluts.

Men are satisfied and considered themselves proud when they have bedded as many women in their lifetime.  And they will jump at any chance to do it. 

But, when it comes to women, is a big no no.  They have to be faithful to their only partner.  Why men can't stay faithful like the women? 

Must they bed all the women they meet?

Yet,  some women are conspicuous.  They are sleeping with many men as possible.  They are the one who gave men opportunities to sleep with them.

In this case, I blamed the women.  I'm calling them sluts.  But then again, you can't clap with a hand.  You need both hands to do that. 

But then again......the men can say no.....but then again....luring and temptation comes......men are trapped mostly.

A stubborn and senseless man

I was driving back to my apartment after having my Sunday lunch and I just couldn't move.  There were a few cars in front of me and it was normal to have a little jam,  200 metres away from the entrance of my apartment.

As I was waiting for the cars to move, I heard horn blarring and a man scolding away in Hokkien, "Lu tah teow e a lor...lu kong xi wa jior...lu car xi jior.  (Translated in English, "You are blocking the road, now you are telling me that I am wrong...u are the one who's wrong.")

He was large built, in his 40s and he was driving a MPW vehicle.   Seconds, after blasting his horn and cursing in Hokkien, he came out and gave a hard kick at the person's vehicle.

Of course, he did managed to pass through, leaving his footprint at the person's vehicle.  Traffic was clear and I drove through, I saw the person the man was scolding to.

Do you want to know the person?  She's an old lady in her 70s.  She was still in her old Morris Minor much to her oblivious the man was scolding her.  The man left a big dent at the back of her vehicle!

The man somehow managed to go through the alley. 

I don't understand at all why this man want to create unnesccary situation like this.  There's another road he can use but he choose not to do it.  He just wants to put people life into misery.

Fucking sick family

I was picking up the The Sun paper today and saw the headlines, "Deadly Ritual" and underneath the small title; Three year old suffocates to death during exorcism.

I was horrified as I continued reading, I was shocked.  It involves a toddler and the whole entire family.  They suffocated her to death by pinning their huge bodies on top of the little girl.

How could the whole family is doing this?  Killing their own daughter?  Hoping that the evil spirits will leave them?

This family is really a fool and ignorant.  I do not know where they gathered this stupid idea or they heed any foolish monk's advice. 

Now the exorcism was not completed resulting a sweet toddler demise making the whole family landing in jail waiting for their crime to be sentenced.

RIP, sweet young thing. 

For the whole story, please click on to the http://www.thesundaily.my/news/local?page=1.

Ps.  How could these people are so ignorant?!  What sentence they should be punished for?

She's moving again......

I was watching movie at my friend's place when it happened.  There was a loud car alarm blaring and suddenly my friends just shouted at me, to run.  We all ran out helter skelter,  my friend was only in his shorts and singlet.  It was such a panicky situation until most of us forgotten our shoes.  We all ran down using the stairs and later joined by others from the way up. 

After we got down,  they said they felt the building shook. It was the 8.9 Richter scale earthquake that shook Acheh, Indonesia on 11th March 2012.  And I did not feel it at all.  There was no sign of things swaying or me feeling dizzy.

We stayed outside for half an hour and went back to the building.  Yesterday earthquake was an enormous one and some of my friends felt it twice.   Tsunami warning was given in Penang but was lifted up an hour later.

One of the safety measure is to run and stay in an open space to avoid of falling furniture or debris.

I asked my friends and colleagues that where were they and did they run?  Of course, there are some who did ran down and there are some just stayed indoors.

There are some who really can't leave the building as they are bedridden.  Or some old folks who are staying at the top floors with their slow and limited movements can be a hindrance to them.

In Penang, this is not the first earthquake we felt.  It's oblivious that some of us do not run down as some of us are immune to the earth shaking beneath our feet.

I thanked God that there were no casualties or death reported over this massive earthquake.  The Lord is surely shaking and warning it's inhabitants of His second coming.  

Brave yourself, world. Many more earthquakes will we experience.

Matthew 24:7-8 Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom.  There will be famines and earthquakes in various places.  These are beginning of birth pains.

I failed my BM...English...Maths....

SPM results were out last Wednesday and of course there were lots of enquiry about courses.  Parents called up at colleges to see what courses are offered and whether these courses are suitable for their children.
Parents and their children were grinning from ear to ear and jumping for joy for  those who scored 12As, 11As, 10As.  And this is the time when colleges are hunting for these SPM holders.

I have been calling these students and had came across those who scored many As.  With these results, most of the students are opting to further their studies in engineering, medicine and actual science.  And of course to some of these courses, my college which I am working in did not offer.

There are some students who had struggle with their results to which extent they failed the core subjects in BM, English or Maths or which some of them do not carry enough credits for the courses offered in my college.  I even advised their parents to heed my advice but seeing their own child do not want to go through the agony of repeating,  the parents chose to listen to them.

Be it if they go to other colleges as well to enrol, they can't be accepted at all.

There are some of them that do not want to resit for the July paper and insist that my college to help them.  Of course, we have some courses that do not require 3 to 5 credit results.  And at this point, they can't enrol in business, IT or management courses. 

It is so sad that the high hopes of their parents instilled in them just died.  But nevertheless, the college is trying the best to accommodate the needs of these students.  And yes, we do  provide then the best alternative for them to pursue a course that will enable them to obtain a cert. 

From there, they can have a better life with a better job.

Ps.  What will you do as parent, if your child do not do well in school even many tuition's?  What's your alternative?

FB shuts down on March 15?....What will you do?

News have been speculated that Facebook will close down on March 15th 2012 as quoted by its founder Mark Zuckerberg.

The site quotes founder Mark Zuckerberg as saying "Facebook has gotten out of control and the stress of managing the company has ruined my life. I need to put an end to all this madness."

There's also a quote from the vice president saying that all stored data will be deleted on the 15th. "If you ever want to see your pictures again, I recommend you to take off the internet. You won't be able to to get them back once Facebook is out of business," he explains.

There's even a petition at Twitter urging Mark Zuckerberg to reconsider not shutting down Facebook and in fact by doing this, he may already ruin billions of lives.

Facebook was created in February 2004 as a hobby project founded by Mark Zuckerberg and since then, it attracted millions of users worldwide.

It created such an phenomenon that million of users would stay addictive hours using Facebook. They stay in touch with their friends by updating their status telling them how they feel, what they are doing and where they are. And users are allowed to comments on their friends profiles and vice versa.

Pictures can be downloaded and be posted to be viewed publicly or through the circle of friends. It's fun to look at these pictures that are posted on the profiles.

There are some company who use Facebook to advertise and sell their products knowing that Facebook have millions of followers visiting the site each day.

Now, the word is out that Facebook may or may not shut down on March 15th. For all facebook users, they are crying out loud not to, but there are some who agreed that it should be shut down.

Parents who kids stuck their eyes goggling on Facebook hours are happy enough to hear this great news. Finally, I get to talk to my kids and hang out with them, the parents claim.

Come March 15th and see whether Facebook will shut down.

Ps. Are you addicted to Facebook? What will you do if Facebook shuts down on March 15th?

Bonus or increment?

If you are given a choice to choose between getting your yearly bonus or yearly increment, what will you choose? And why?

You can only choose one.

Ps. Im doing a survey here.

Incest Shock-Worst Than Animals

Her father started touching her when she was 6 years old, most time putting his tongue in her private. This is how my dad love me, she thought. She was a child then, innocently accepting what her father does.

During the time, she grew up and her father continues his secret liaison with his daughter. She developed well into a young woman and by that time, her father had deflowered her. She knew her father's action was wrong only when she was taught the lesson of morality by her religious teacher.

She told her mom what her father did to her and her mom nonchalantly tells her that her dad just showing his love.

Her mom choose to ignore her daughter's cries even though she knows that her father did was wrong.

Her father continue to rape her until she was pregnant at one time. She was asked not to abort the child as her dad has no money for her to perform the abortion. But, later when the help from her good friend, she managed to get the abortion done.

Many times, she was asked to report her father to the authorities. She has the fear of doing that as she believes that younger sibling needs her dad. She has no support from her mom as she passed away a few years back.

As I'm writing now, she still in the clutches of her father.

Ps. I'm really angry and hate this type of men, they are fucking worst than animals, raping their own offspring. And so disheartening to say, certain races in Malaysia, are still doing it!!
But sadder to say, that some of these victims are just too afraid to voice out.

Innocent Play?

1st Boy: Do you want to have some fun now?

2nd Boy: Sure, I do.

1st Boy: Hey, let's us invita Sita and have some fun with her. I want to sleep with her.

2nd Boy:Yeah, let's us invite and play with her, Im sure she doesn' mind and she will enjoy it.

What is wrong with the mind and the attitude of these young boys now? Is this what in thier mind whenever they see a girl, who is a friend?

They are only children, barely teens and they have committed a crime.

I was shocked when I read of the news from the Star today. This rape crime have much younger criminal offenders now.

For the full shocking story, please read from the link, here. http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2011/10/24/nation/9759316&sec=nation

Ps. Whom are to blame? The parents? The teachers? Their misleading friends or the influence of the media?

Pss. How are these children will be taught and corrected so that these crimes will not be on a rise again?

Is government health care up to the par?

My security guard told me that his granddaughter was admitted in a hospital for an appendicitis removal.

At the first instance, when his granddaughter was down with fever, she was sent to the Penang general hospital for a check up. She was only given some anti-biotics and was sent home. And during the next 2 days, her temperature was going up and down.

She went back again to the hospital and she was admitted. She was in a great pain and at that moment, her particulars were taken down. They could not administered the diagnosis as she was attended by medical internships.

When my security guard saw the slacked of the medical services, he immediately discharged her from the hospital. She was taken to one of the private hospitals.

She was immediately given medical attention and when the nurses saw her condition, they knew she was having an appendicitis. After doing a CT scan, they found out her appendicitis has burst.

The next day, she was operated for 3 hours. Had it not being for the fast services from the private hospital, she would have died.

I have heard and read many complaints of general health care that given to the public. There are long queue to have diagnosis from the specialist, even major operations needed to wait for months.

The government still have lots to do and to improve its public health care system for those who are earning below average.

Ps. Do you think that the public health care have improved?

Cat Is Out Of The Bag

I was chatting with my ex today and we were talking much about relationship. He is telling me about girls that he met and he won't stay long in this type of relationship. I was asking him whether he wants a serious one and of course, he said yes.

He blurted out that he was married before, and he did not tell me about that when I was with him. Well, well, well, imagine this. It took him after 2 years, to tell me.

Thank God, I am not with him anymore.

Ps. How would you react to your partner/spouse if you find out things that you are not suppose to?

Be Alert and Careful, ladies....

This morning when I arrived at work, I saw on the white board written that 2 of my colleagues went to the police station and to the hospital. It involves students as they were from the student affair departments, I thought.

Later, I then asked another colleague why did they go to the specify mentioned places? And I was told, that one of my colleagues, the handbag got snatched and she was slashed in her left hand.

She came in the morning at 8 plus and she parked at the side lane, the usual place. She saw someone who's tall, dark and skinny standing at the side labe looking at her via her side mirror. She thought the guy just standing there, minding his own business.

As she was about to alight from her car, he approached her and stuck a knife at her side asking her to be quiet. Knowing that she being robbed, she held tightly her handbag. He continued to grab the bag and she continues to grip tightly.

The robber tried to slash her handbag away from her grip, but in doing that, he slashed her left palm leaving a deep gash. She gave a chilling scream until it alerted all her other colleagues and students. She was quickly administered first aid and was driven to the hospital.

My colleague received 8 stitches. Thank God, her wound was only on her palm only, not on her face or other parts of her body.

Ps. Ladies, please be very careful and alert at all times. Try not to carry handbags if neccessary, if you do carry, BE ALWAYS ALERT and street smart.

If only we could listen......

I was away busing myself in the working world and now Im back after weeks of missing. Of course, there were much work to be done. And now, I heaved a sigh of relief.

For the last 2 weeks, an incident happened at the place Im staying, I did not know of the news until I heard it from my neighbours. This news was published in the Chinese daily and I don't read them, so I was oblivious to it.

A lady in her late fifties jumped to her death at the blocked adjacent to mine. It happened on last two Thursdays at 2am and I was sleeping like a dead meat. I did not hear any thud or loud sirens which were supposed from the police and the ambulance. Guessed they did not turn the sirens to catch any attention.

I do not know of her nor have I met her even though she stayed next to my block. And yes, she was the talk of my area.

Her husband has many wives and because of this, she was estranged and hurt of how she was treated badly. And she has a mentally retarded son. These are the reasons that could have made her end her life.

I have a friend that wanted to end her life years ago, every calls that came made me jittery. She will tell me that she has no reason to live. I was so afraid each time, she make this comment. I listened to her bawling and I was there each moment for her.

She did visit a psychiatric and was given medicine. After years of taking medicine and many prayers and belief in God, she was healed. I was there to listen.

Ps. It's really disheartening to hear people end their life. If only we could listen to them and if only they are able to share.....

It Only Takes A Spark

We were warned by our manager to be careful of her. She is our new colleague who is joining the marketing team.

It seems that she will create unnecessary trouble between the staffs. And because of this, she was shacked.

Within the second day she came, she told my colleagues not to surf FB. They were shocked and annoyed for being told by a junior staff who just joined. Can't she keep her blady mouth shut?

Apparently, the whole FB issued has came to known by our management. The management wants to shut down its website the reason being we have misused our freedom. And were surfing too much minus the work we are doing!

I came to know who reported to my principal about us surfing FB and I warned my colleagues not to indulge in it anymore. They took heed.

The one I taught who reported the FB issue was a scapegoat. Later, I came to know who was their real culprit. It was the new colleague who came! We can't do anything to her as she was closed with the boss. Damn shoe polisher, huh!!

It seems that not only the FB issued she reported, in fact she has been telling stories to my boss. My colleagues can't do anything as she closed to my boss. And bosses just like people reporting to them, don't they?

No one liked her as all of us know her attitude and behaviour. Up to the extent, she backstabbing her own colleagues which from the same department. And every opportunity she has, she will tell everything to the principal that happens in her own department.

I feel that she's not giving any respect to her own marketing manager. Hierarchy, whatever she's unhappy or unsatisfactory, she should has bring it up to her manager first.

And everyday, I would hear complaints from my colleagues about her.

FB has being blocked by my management since Friday because of her. And we have to accept the management reasons, so as to speak.

She's bringing disunity in her department. I hope that the marketing team will stay strong to kick her ass out soon!

Ps. Do you encounter this type of behavioural problematic people in your workplace? What did your company do about it? How did it affect the department?

Ouuch!!! Surely it's painball......

I set my alarm early at 7plus. I woke up and quickly have a bite of breakfast and leaving my home at 8am. I was on the way to pick my another colleague scheldued together to play paintball.

I had a vagued idea where her house located. She gave me a small map to follow but I did many rounds to locate her house. (Needless to say, Im still not a local Penangnite even though, Im been living here for the past 10 years, yet In not sure of the road. Blah! :P)

But anyhow, after many calls and asking some locals where her house is exactly located, I managed to find it. Mind you, it takes 20 minutes. And off we go to the place.

We went there and most of us players have gathered at the site. And we are still waiting for all to arrive! Malaysian time!

Before the game begins, we are briefed about its rules and regulations and most important SAFETY.

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We are briefed on the important of wearing protective masks ALL TIME while in the field, how to handle the gun on and off the field.

There were 5 groups, each group con sits of 6 of us. We were then taken to the field to have a tour and to strategies our attack.



Im getting suit up for the game!

We were the first group to go in the field. I was posted at the beginning of the field, covering on my right side. Shooting and attacking the opponents coming from the other side. I was covered by my colleague who's behind me.

My colleague went full force to the front without me knowing it and I keep on defending my right side, not knowing the enemy came and attacked me. I was hit on my right thigh.

It was over merely 5 minutes and all my counterparts are wounded.



Me and my colleague are getting ready to shoot and be shot!

We played another five rounds. There were many shots exchanged and many of us who are first timers are out within minutes. Of course, there are some who are better strategies and better in defense.

I've got hit 3 with large bruises in my body. It was painful eventually but for the thrill of the game, it was worthwhile.

Our group came fourth in placing.



Ps. This game is surely an adrenalin. I'm looking forward to another game of painball. Ouch!!!

It's Paintball time!

I was so exited for the last few weeks when the advertisement were out.

Come and join us for a paintball competition at Straits Quay. Take this opportunity to bond with your friends for a fun morning full of activity.

Details as follows:
Location: Straits Quay - Opposite New TESCO Building
Date: 22 May 2011 (Sunday)
Time: 9.00 am – 1.00 pm
Fee: RM 45.00 per person (5 in a group)

Registration
For students – 6 groups
For staff – 2 groups
(First come first serve basis)
Medals will be awarded to winners and certificates to all participants

This is the first paintball competition organised by my college and it's the first participant for me. I am so excited about it!

Paintball is a game, first played in 1981 in New Hampshire, in which players compete, in teams or individually, to eliminate opponents by hitting them with capsules containing paint (referred to as a paintball) from a gas-powered device called a paintball marker. The game is regularly played at a sporting level with worldwide leagues, tournaments, professional teams and players, but is also used by armies to supplement military training.

I always wanted to join, having the feeling of being hunted and hunting. It's also a good time of letting of the stress out by shooting all my opponents and having thrill of it.

But the downside is that I'm so afraid that my body will be bruised after hit by those bullets. Of course, there are body suits to protect me.

Ps. I can't wait for this game to begin. I will update more of this event after the event. Hope my team will win!

Blessings of a thousand folds will come

I have a colleague who I always frequent for lunch every day. And during this lunch session, she will be always the first to pay. No doubt, many of us are not fast enough to take our money out, lol...

Many times we want to pay her back, she will decline our monies. Even though, we managed to return our lunch monies, she will treat us by ordering some extra food the next day after.

She really has the heart of giving! And God will bless her abundantly.

Lately, one of my friend has financial constraints and needed some cash for his everyday supplies. And this friend is very dear to me.

He asked me for some help and at first I was reluctant. I never ever help anyone before and it was hard for me to do that.

The Lord somehow moved my heart asking me to bless him.

I took him to shop for his groceries. Though the bill came out to a more budgeted amount I discussed with him, I felt good.

Ps. I don't expect him to return the money but I believed that God will bless me a thousand folds of what I've done.

Matt 25:35,40 - For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you give me something to drink. The King will reply, "I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me."

Lonely? Looking for love?

Are you lonely? Looking for love? This cries out to all the women out there. Im not running a lonely hearts website here, lol..

Many young working adults especially females have been fooled into these so called internet or social networking where they can be friend to anyone.

My sister's colleague, his niece went missing in India 3 weeks ago. His niece told her mom that she's going to India on a job assignment, purportedly of meeting her boyfriend.

She met her boyfriend through FaceBook, they chatted and fell in love. The sweet caress, the phone calls and the special attention given by the guy made her fell in love instantly.

The guy came and met with her family but her mom, sensing something was wrong, did not like him. And she was asked to stop all contacts with the guy. The guy somehow manipulated her and she ended up going to India on the pretence of work assignments, instead she went and meet him.

Her mother managed to call up her daughter's employee about her whereabouts and the company denied that they sent her daughter for work assignments in India.

Calls made to her daughter's and her boyfriend's mobile phone was unreachable.

The last resort is that my sister's colleague and his sister in law went to India embassy in KL to launch a report on missing person, hoping that the Indian authorities will help them.

The shocking news that they are told that many women who gone missing are working professional.

I was lured into these scamming world. They really give me the attention I wanted, they profess their undying love instantly. Yes, I do flirt with them, they gave me a very high and secure feeling. I could have just fallen for all of them.

It's still bearable when money are being conned, but it's heart breaking when these innocent women are conned and reported missing. Yet, it's a horror end when they are being lured into prostitution ring.

Doing Good With Regrets

The whole situation involves 2 guys and 3 ladies. The 2 guys are my boyfriend and his work buddy.

They were good buddies before, after which my boyfriend was caught in a deep shit situation. His buddy is a popular guy among the girls even though he's married. He always on a lookout for those lonely ladies to cheat their hearts and their bodies.

My boyfriend was trying to be a vigilante for telling one of the girls to be careful with his buddy as he's married. Not believing my boyfriend, she asked my boyfriend's buddy whether what had been said it's true. Of course, his buddy denied it.

Currently, the girl attempted suicide knowing his so called boyfriend is married.

In between, there were 2 more girls of which his buddy got involved with. News of him married were reached to these 2 girls. My boyfriend was blamed from his buddy for telling these 2 girls his married status. Of which my boyfriend denied for telling.

I believed my boyfriend as his buddy wanted to court my sister.

Things turn nearly ugly as his buddy wanted to land a punch onto my boyfriend last 2 days. The worst thing is that both of them are working at the same place.

His fear is that his buddy would continue to harm him, even me and his family.

I asked him to be cool, not to bother any of his buddy taunting and to walk away whenever an angry situation arrives next time.

Ps. Can my boyfriend report to the police whenever he's being taunted again?

I'm sorry, folks...

I'm late, folks. Sorry for that. I'm still so busy for this past few weeks at work.

Calling students to remind them to pay off their outstanding fees that are due. Today, I've have to update and to print out the outstanding monthly report.

I will update my blog in a few day's time, it's a promise.

Ps. Manage to visit some of you, my friends. To those who I have not visited for a long time, hold on, I will be back soon.

Pss. Go to get back to work now.